By: Tarun Prakash Srivastava, Sr. Executive Editor-ICN Group
Please note- no medicine can work well on you if you do not take them at the proper intervals and in proper amounts.
LUCKNOW: I do not want to talk to you about every positive thought or attitude or every negative thought or attitude because such things will be found in almost every motivational book. I ask you to focus your attention on those things which are often not discussed in any book. There is a famous saying – it will be better to train for a hungry person to catch fish for himself from the sea once than providing him with already caught fish every day.
I want to see that technique developing in you that you can become your guide and at least identify yourself your negative areas and get out of it yourself, and then you will see, whatever motivational books, seminars or workshops were not able to work well on your personality, how suddenly they start giving you amazing results and how does your personality shine overnight.
Let’s now try to understand what technique you can use regarding the above information for your golden future:
First Type of Information:
It is very easy to work on such information. These are all the things that you know and people also know. As – what you like, what you dislike, in what situations you become very pleased, in which circumstances you become very angry, what gives you energy, what makes you tired or desperate etc.
All you have to do is create a list of all such tasks with a neutral aspect and then determine whether each thought is related to which group of thought, i.e. we will keep it in a family of positive thoughts or in negative thoughts family. There is no higher school than self-determination.
If someone explains or teaches you, then it is possible that your mental system does not accept those instructions because your mental system may already have some contradictory thoughts present in it, and between ideas coming from outside and the ideas existed inside you, a situation of duality can be created and in such a situation, the thoughts already present in you will often be heavy on thoughts coming from outside but If you consider yourself it at the level of your thoughts, then they become your own thoughts and the thoughts that are already present within you, begin to be transformed.
Many times it happens that we know our weaknesses but we cannot identify them. Sometimes we have the answers that we did not recognize in absence of any appropriated question but as soon as the related question is asked, the answer is directly linked to that question. Like – I ask you (1) what do you dislike? (2) In what situations do you become very angry? (3) What makes you tired or frustrated? (4) Where do you not want to go in life? (5) What do you not want to become in life? etc.- and surely, by your own answers, those folders of your personality will open, whom you did not even know earlier that those files were present inside you. Often we talk about ourselves in positive style just like what we like? Where do we want to go? What do we like to be? Etc.
But nobody talks to himself in negative style to ascertain his negative areas, and that is why we fail to recognize them well. Now when you prepare to identify your own negative areas and make a list whereof in the above style, let me know- who would want to keep the toxic things in his body. Probably nobody, not even you. Keep in mind, if the importance of RAM is to be understood properly, if the magic of KRISHN is to be felt inwardly then before that, we have to recognize RAVAN, and we will have to understand KANS well.
Please note that RAM and KRISHN always exist within us because they are the natural elements of each soul, but at the same time, we pull thoughts from outside through incomplete and untrue information and then our prejudices, immature experiences and self-created pre-made conceptions, many RAVAN and KANS are acquired by ourselves. We only try to identify our qualities by using positive question styles sometimes but we never try to mark our faults, and therefore, our weaknesses always become our companions and they sit permanently like the guards at the gateway of our personality and try to stop the entrance of any good information or element and the result is that the even the best thought of the world either does not impress us at all or it does not impress us or at the level at which level it gives wonderful results.
Often, the sick people complain that despite their recommended treatment, they were not able to recover. Please note- no medicine can work well on you if you do not take them at the proper intervals and in proper amounts. This situation also exists more or less with positive thoughts. Anyone, who is already poisonous, cannot accept anything more than his capacity, whether it is nectar. Our preference should be to remove the poison from the bowl first and then we can see the miracles of nectar. Not only this, but you will start getting some amazing and wonderful results, during the process of throwing the poison out also.
Tarun Prakash Srivastava
The writer is the author of book ‘Science of Money’ available on Amazon.com in English at http://bit.ly/Science-Of-Money